Couples Counselling in Essendon

Every relationship experiences difficult periods. You may be having the same arguments, struggling to communicate, rebuilding trust or feeling more disconnected than you once did.

Couples counselling provides a supportive, non-judgmental space where both partners can feel heard, understood and respected. Together, we’ll explore the patterns affecting your relationship and develop practical ways to communicate more safely, repair after conflict and reconnect.

How couples counselling can help:

• Communication difficulties and recurring conflict
• Emotional disconnection
• Rebuilding trust after hurt or betrayal
• Affair recovery
• Strengthening intimacy and friendship
• Understanding each other’s emotional needs
• Premarital counselling
• Parenting and family pressures
• Blended-family challenges
• Major life transitions
• Separation or relationship uncertainty
• Creating a stronger, healthier relationship

What happens in ongoing couples counselling sessions?

Ongoing sessions focus on the goals we identify together. We may explore recurring relationship patterns, practise healthier communication, work through conflict or disconnection, rebuild trust and develop practical ways to respond differently to each other.

Sessions are active and collaborative. You will both have opportunities to share your experiences, better understand each other and practise new skills. 

Will we have anything to work on between sessions?

Yes. I may suggest practical exercises, communication tools or worksheets tailored to your relationship. Small changes between sessions can help you practise what we explore together and build healthier patterns at a pace that feels manageable.

How long will we need couples counselling?

There is no set number of sessions, as every relationship and situation is different. Some couples attend for a shorter period to address a specific concern, while others benefit from longer-term support when patterns are more established or trust has been significantly affected.

Sessions are 60 minutes and are generally scheduled weekly or fortnightly, depending on your needs. We will regularly review your progress together and discuss when you feel ready to reduce or finish counselling.

What to expect

Your first couples session gives each of you an opportunity to share your perspective, explain what has brought you to counselling and discuss what you hope to achieve in your relationship. Together, we will begin identifying your concerns, strengths and shared goals for counselling.

Following the initial session, I meet with each partner individually. This provides space to explore more about you, your relationship history, family background and the experiences that may influence how you communicate, respond to conflict and experience the relationship.

We then come back together to develop a clearer understanding of the patterns affecting your relationship and decide what we will work towards. I am here to support both of you—without judgement or taking sides—as you create healthier patterns and work towards the relationship you want.

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Session information and fee

Couples counselling is currently available in person at The Connection Room in Essendon.

A $100 deposit is required to secure your appointment. The remaining balance is payable at your session.

60-minute couples counselling session: $260

Not sure whether couples counselling is right for you? Book a free 15-minute discovery call to ask questions and see whether working together feels like the right fit.

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Safety and suitability

Couples counselling relies on both partners feeling safe enough to speak openly and honestly. It may not be appropriate where there is current family violence, coercive control, intimidation or fear of consequences for speaking openly.

Because safety comes first, I’m unable to provide couples counselling in these circumstances. Where appropriate, I can discuss individual support or referrals to specialist services.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic or family violence, contact 1800RESPECT⁠ on 1800 737 732 or text 0458 737 732.

In Victoria, you can also contact Safe Steps⁠ 24/7 on 1800 015 188.

If you are in immediate danger, call 000.